Wednesday, August 29, 2012

What a year!

It has taken me a while to write this post even though in reality I have been thinking about it for quite some time.

LMI turned the Big-One on the 23rd. To say it was a day I will never forget is an understatement. It started with A and I going into her room in the morning and singing her happy birthday. Tears immediately filled my eyes, but I was able to hold it together. It was a regular morning for us all - work and daycare, but I managed to leave work early so we could have some family time. We took for her one year photoshoot and cake smash. Until now, LMI has eaten everything except sweets. I really wanted to capture her first taste on film and it was not disappointing. Afterwards we had a nice dinner just the three of us and then it was off to bed.

It was the perfect way to celebrate.

LMI continues to change all the time. She is cruising around every piece of furniture she can reach and is always pulling herself up to stand. She isn't so sturdy to let go, it will come in time. A few months ago I was sure that she would be walking by now, but now I think it could be a few more months as she really isn't showing much interest. I just hope I am with her for her first steps. She officially has two and half words. Up, uh oh and mmmmm (as in this tastes so good). Its so cute when she throws her sippy cup on the ground and says uh oh. Her hair is also growing and now it can finally hold a tiny clip - no more mistaking her for a boy!

She is still my petite little girl weighing in at 15lbs6oz and measuring 27" at her check up. She loves loves loves to read and can literally sit for twenty minutes just looking at the pictures and flipping through the pages. It is so special to see her gravitate towards books even when there are toys around. It makes my teacher heart expand.

We still look at her everyday and wonder how we were so lucky. I am still completely dumbfounded that she was even conceived at all - especially now with all this trying again. I know my story is not conventional. I know that things like don't happen all the time. I know that this may not happen again for us.

LMI has brought life back into me. The years of TTCing drained me. I don't think I realized how much until I started to feel happy again. I feel like I can breathe. I am coming out of my depressed fog more and more each day and feeling like a happier and healthier R.


  1. Happy birthday LMI!! I'm so happy you are so happy and that cake picture is super cute!

  2. Aww, happy birthday LMI!! So cute!

  3. Happy Birthday LMI! Sounds like a perfect birthday. I'm glad you've had such a remarkable year, R, and that you are feeling yourself again after years of struggling with IF.

  4. happy birthday to LMI! what a beauty!

    and i am so glad in my heart to know that you feel that fog lifting. she is the love of your life, the light of your life!
    here's to many, many more years of living with this sweet little wonder...

    -ss from ivfc :)

  5. Happy birthday sweetie! Miss you R!


  6. Ah such a cutie pat-too-tie LMI! Thinking of you always...

  7. A belated Happy Birthday to LMI! I've been off the blogging for a while and am just now checking back in. So glad to see that all is going well. And you really went all out with that huge cake for smashing - I'm sure you got some wonderful pictures. Big hugs to the whole family!